Several of the original theories about self esteem indicated that it is a fundamental need or perhaps even a motivation for human beings.
The noted American psychologist Abraham Maslow integrated self esteem within the hierarchy of human needs. He referred to two variations for esteem: the need for respect coming from other people, as well as the need for self respect, or inner self esteem.
Respect and regard from others includes recognition, acceptance, status and appreciation. This had been considered to be far more fragile and easily lost compared to inner self esteem.
As outlined by Maslow, without having the satisfaction of the self esteem need, men and women will be driven to look for it and not able to grow and find self actualization.
Modern-day theories about self esteem take a look at the numerous reasons in which people are motivated to keep up a high regard for themselves.
Sociometer theory believes that self esteem evolved to measure an individual’s amount of status in addition to acceptance in ones’ social group.
The incredible importance of self esteem is based on the belief that it concerns ourselves, the way we tend to be as well as the sense of our personal worth. As a result, it has an effect on the way we are and how we act in the world and just how we relate to other people.
Absolutely nothing about the way in which we think, feel and behave escapes the influence regarding our self esteem.
Abraham Maslow, as part of his hierarchy of human needs, talks about the “need for esteem”, which can be separated into two aspects, the actual esteem for oneself self love, self confidence, skill, aptitude, and respect receives from other people recognition, success, and so forth.
The most healthy expression of self-esteem, in accordance with Maslow, “is the one which manifests in respect we deserve for others, more than renown, fame and flattery.”
Carl Rogers, the foremost exponent of humanistic psychology, revealed that the starting point of problems for many people is that they despise themselves and they consider themselves to be invaluable and unworthy of being loved. Thus, the importance he or she gives to unconditional acceptance from others. Indeed, the concept of self esteem is approached since then in humanistic psychology as an inalienable right for every person, summarized in the following statement:
“Every human being, without exception, for the mere fact of being, is worthy of unconditional respect from everybody else; he deserves to esteem himself and to be esteemed.”
According to this kind of reasoning, even the most evil of human beings deserve some amount of respect and even a treatment of kindness.
Another one of the theories about self esteem focuses on bullying and declares that every member of society should be proactive in preventing anyone from causing hurt – in any form – to others.
We would like to thank our friend, Dr. Julie Phillips, a clinical psychologist, who provided the information on these theories about self esteem for this post.
Other sites with information about self esteem...
Mayo Clinic . . . Self Esteem: Too Low, Too High Or Just Right?
Wikipedia . . . Self Esteem
Building Self-Esteem: A Self-Help Guide